Not My Kids

erina fair wideweb  470x3160 e1273017914622 Not My KidsPeo­ple can be so blind to bio­log­i­cal real­ity. When faced with real­i­ties of life that they find incon­ve­nient to believe they just chose to sus­pend logic. As reported be Jes­sica O’Reilly on the site Car­nal Nation, a new study by Dr. Sinikka Elliott of North Car­olina State Uni­ver­sity reveals that par­ents of teens believe that all ado­les­cents are sex­ual with the excep­tion of their own chil­dren. The full report is pub­lished in the May issue of Sym­bolic Inter­ac­tion.

While teens over­all were per­ceived as hyper­sex­ual, the par­ents in the study viewed their own chil­dren as prey to other over­sexed preda­tory teens. For exam­ple, par­ents of male teens were con­cerned that young women would lure their pas­sive young men into sex in order to solid­ify rela­tion­ships. By con­trast, par­ents of young women felt that male teens might take advan­tage of their unknow­ing and sex­u­ally dis­in­ter­ested daughters.

If this atti­tude is in fact so preva­lent, is it any won­der that the teen preg­nancy rate is so high? If par­ents hon­estly believe that their kids have no inter­est in sex and that their only issue is pro­tec­tion against all those other parent’s preda­tory, sex-craved mon­sters, then they cer­tainly are not teach­ing their own kids proper preg­nancy avoid­ance tech­niques. How these par­ents can be so delu­sional is beyond me. But the results do seem con­sis­tent with what we observe. Per­haps it is human nature to want to believe that your teenaged chil­dren are still the cute and cud­dly lit­tle bun­dles that were totally depen­dent upon you when they were infants. Remem­ber, it has not been that many gen­er­a­tions since they would be rais­ing their own fam­i­lies. It is only the pro­gres­sion of mod­ern cul­ture that has changed this. Biol­ogy has not changed.

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