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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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- How Does a Successful Long-Term Relationship Start?
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Yearly Archives: 2011
A Real Southern Winter Holiday Dinner
An unmistakable smell of anise, cinnamon, cloves, and ginger lingers very distinctly this morning. If it was not for the fact that I knew what I had cooked, I could easily have believed my maternal grandmother had been cooking her … Continue reading
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39 Years
We formally joined, at least as recognized by the state, 39 years ago today at 5:30 in the afternoon on a very cold winter’s day 5 hours west of the Prime Meridian. It all really started six months before that. … Continue reading
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Where Did the Posts Go?
There has been quite a spell since the last post. What has happened? Where did the posts go? Well, some got started, some were almost finished; all of them were “downers”. I have no idea why they are all “downers”. … Continue reading
Struggles of an ENTJ Father Confessor
My workplace has been a bit tense of late; the dysfunctional economy, our own dysfunction, our customer’s dysfunction – a bit of a mess. Needless to say, there are many opinions of what is wrong and what should be done … Continue reading
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What If a Relationship Should Not Last?
The other day, we posted a discussion on so many couples entering into a relationship in ways that almost guarantees failure as the outcome. If you have read our blog at all you know that we are in a long-term, … Continue reading
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I Am Zombie Bait
I thought it was just a joke, but now I am not so sure. And to make matters worse, I am really worried. When the US CDC posted Preparedness 101: Zombie Apocalypse it seemed like a bit of satire. But … Continue reading
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England’s Own Puritan Ethic, also Death of BBC News
It is bad enough the England made the Puritans uncomfortable enough that they came over here and firmly established their sexually repressive attitudes into the American psyche. But it appears that some of them stayed behind and are working to … Continue reading
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Bye Bye Bootie
Bye Bye Bootie I’m glad to see you go; Bye Bye Bootie, Why’d ya have to come? Time for sunshine, It’s drivin’ top down time; I’ll smile Bootie, Caus’ you’re gone for good. … Well, you get the point. The Boot has … Continue reading
