I Hate My Boss! Well, not now. In fact, my current boss is probably the best I have ever had. Should be, I played at least a part in getting my current boss selected to be my boss. Nice if you can pull it off. But I have had a couple that were real stinkers.
Before I started in a real job I worked the typical odd jobs of a student — ÂÂ
- an assistant in an emergency room,
- projectionist in a campus bar (great job – found Still Here Too),
- a test technician in a meat packing plant (that was an experience worthy of its own blog, including the morning the guy showed up with the sawed-off shotgun – yes, loaded – and fired – both barrels),
- a technician in a agricultural research laboratory,
- the graduate student stuff (not sure I can really call getting paid to do what I had to do to get my degree a job – but I got paid!),
Then I started what would be called career jobs in academics and industry where I have had twelve direct bosses. There have been three, the current included, for whom I hold total respect and admiration. These are people I would seek to work for. I had seven bosses that were OK, had most traits that were pretty good but a few rather weak points. And then there were the other two. One, well to this day I still cannot understand why he was ever hired. Personally, there were times I questioned his basic intelligence. But hiring him was not my choice. I just had to endure the period until his incompetence became so clear to his bosses that they finally made a change (in large corporations, there is always a higher boss, no matter how high you rise). The other, oh boy, the other. Very intelligent, given the job when our business unit was in a tremendously strong position. Actually entrusted me with a lot of confidence. And yet, this was an individual that one could never be comfortable around. Without divulging any details, let us just say that personal greed and a lack of internal moral guidance is a very dangerous combination when added to a position of power. We see the consequences of this in the press every day.
During the course of my career, I have had various sizes of organizations reporting to me. A few, to a few hundred employees. One thing I learned that should temper the assessment of my bosses. Quite a number of the employees assigned to work under my management actually sought to work under me. Unfortunately, there were a few that thought being assigned to work under me was the worst job experience they ever had. And then some thought I wasn’t too bad, but would have liked to change something about how I did the job. But they did not all agree on what they would have changed. So, some of my peers might have disagreed on the seven OK bosses. There was no one who spoke up in defense of the two we would all rather forget. No boss is likely to be perfect for every employee.
So what advice do I have to offer? First of all, bosses come and bosses go. The really hard choice you have to make when stuck with a boss that is really a bad fit for you. Quite honestly, you really need to assess the situation even if you have a boss that is the greatest boss you have ever had. You have two basic choices.
- Look for another job that offers a better working situation, or
- Stay in place and wait for the world to change around you.
Either may be the right choice. But whether you have the right boss is only a small part of the equation in deciding which is right. What is really important is the total environment. One person, even the boss, does not make a work environment. Remember that the boss has bosses. What are your boss’s bosses like? Do they appear to be people you respect? If so, would you expect them to try to modify your boss’s behavior or even change your boss’s assignment? The boss has peers. You should judge what they are like. If they are people to respect and your direct boss is behaving improperly, it is likely that they are applying pressure to change the situation. Just how much do you enjoy working with your co-workers? You should not underestimate the value of a team you enjoy working with. Is the business environment of the company you are currently employed by solid?
When I was faced with my two really horrible bosses, the company’s business outlook was very encouraging. I could answer most of the questions relatively positive manner. I chose to stay. Although in one case I did look outside as I explain below. And the world changed around me. It was not guaranteed to change for the better. But I think the odds were strongly in favor that it would. And both times, it did.
Even if you have a boss that you like working for, it is wise to consider these questions from time to time. If you consider the same questions and many of the answers are negative, especially the strength of the company’s business outlook, you owe it to yourself to at least consider a job or career move.
I have either made or seriously considered a change of jobs three times in my professional career. I have been lucky in that in none of the cases was I driven to consider the change because of a dire business situation. While in academics I was never faced with a loss of funding that would have in any way threatened my position. In industry, I have always been in a position of relative security, even when a partial downturn was a possibility.
One of the times was when I decided to leave academics. In this case it was not because of a boss, because of co-workers, because of the students, or really because of the work. I totally enjoyed the research but wished to apply myself to something of broader applicability in the world (it was a fairly obscure subject that I worked on). Some of the bureaucratic nonsense did drive me a little nuts, but a large corporation can be just as bad as a university, sometimes worse.
The other two times I was considering a move in order to improve my working conditions. Both new positions would have been somewhat significant advancements. I was well qualified for both positions and the companies actively pursued me for the positions. I must tell you that I was somewhat cautious in the negotiations in both cases. And in both cases, this turned out to be a very smart move. To make two very long stories short. One of the negotiations fell apart when the company I was negotiating with was suddenly sold by its parent company. From what I know of the company that bought the firm I was thinking of hiring on with, I dodged a very big bullet! The second company ran into legal trouble with the Federal Government not long after I started talking to them. Needless to say, I wanted nothing to do with them after that. They would have been worse than the situation I was trying to get away from. Sometime the grass has only been painted green!
The rest of my career, I have stayed in place and watched many, many changes happen around me. Many have been for the better, some have had to be fixed soon after they have been put in place, some have been unmitigated disasters. There will be more changes in the future. I just hope I continue to have bosses like the one I have now. It makes work a lot more fun. But it is everything else about the job that makes it worth staying.
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