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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Escape Into Fantasy
It is an old habit and it is not in itself a bad one. The only issue I must be careful to watch for is that, as has been true in my past, I do find it so enjoyable that … Continue reading
Take My Cookies, Give Me My Google Search
Google has announced that effective 1 March 2012 it will consolidate all 60 of its privacy policies into one and will share information across all of its services. This has many of the privacy paranoid in a tizzy. Among the … Continue reading
It Is Simple Courtesy and There Is Too Little Left
Exiting one of the local houses of the internationally known, caffeine-providing mermaid with one hand full of a morning’s serving of well-steamed milk and extract of slightly over roasted coffee beans; I tried to hold the door open for a young … Continue reading
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A Real Southern Winter Holiday Dinner
An unmistakable smell of anise, cinnamon, cloves, and ginger lingers very distinctly this morning. If it was not for the fact that I knew what I had cooked, I could easily have believed my maternal grandmother had been cooking her … Continue reading
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39 Years
We formally joined, at least as recognized by the state, 39 years ago today at 5:30 in the afternoon on a very cold winter’s day 5 hours west of the Prime Meridian. It all really started six months before that. … Continue reading
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Where Did the Posts Go?
There has been quite a spell since the last post. What has happened? Where did the posts go? Well, some got started, some were almost finished; all of them were “downers”. I have no idea why they are all “downers”. … Continue reading
Struggles of an ENTJ Father Confessor
My workplace has been a bit tense of late; the dysfunctional economy, our own dysfunction, our customer’s dysfunction – a bit of a mess. Needless to say, there are many opinions of what is wrong and what should be done … Continue reading
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