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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Author Archives: Still Here Too
We Are Not an Optimum Match
I am an INFP. He is an ENTJ. We have found that we get a lot of interest in our blog when we mention our Myers-Brigg personality types. We will do a series of posts on this topic. We have to … Continue reading
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You Make Me Cry Tears of Joy
I have no idea what I did to deserve you — you make me cry tears of Joy I have been doing house stuff all day — pulling stuff out of the closet-sweeping dog and cat hair — doing laundry and … Continue reading
I Need To Have an Orgasm
I tried a new antihistamine. It was a disaster. I was a zombie. Being an INFP, my feelings of happiness and contentment are dependent on those I love also being happy and content. I am very empathetic so others moods … Continue reading
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Life Is Not Fair
Random Life Events and
Why I Know I Have the Best Husband in the World
I was just reading “It’s all Random”, by Geezer Chick and I have to say I totally agree. But why do some people seem to get most of the painful randomness?? I am sitting here trying not to feel so … Continue reading
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Odd Couples
We have been back for only four days, from a whirlwind-tempest, a joyful New Year Marriage marathon party for two wonderful 60 somethings. Plus we made a three day stop just for the two of us on the way home. … Continue reading
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Tips For a Long-Lasting Relationship #2
Wear the Same Gym Socks We wear the same gym socks. But thatà is not the tip. We do things together. We go to the gym together. Over the years we have learned and participated in each other’s sports, intellectual and cultural … Continue reading
My soul recognizes the language of your touch
SEX - I understand that some of you have arrangements with your committed others, to be in plural relationships or open marriages - I will not judge, it is none of my business. If it works for you fine. That does not work for … Continue reading









