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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Author Archives: Surviving Survival
What If a Relationship Should Not Last?
The other day, we posted a discussion on so many couples entering into a relationship in ways that almost guarantees failure as the outcome. If you have read our blog at all you know that we are in a long-term, … Continue reading
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Thank You
We started this site in December 2009. One half a million pageviews is quite a milestone and it seems a “thank you” to all of you who view this site is warrented. And as a reminder, comments and questions are … Continue reading
Elder Sex, Not Gross, Its Life
I ran across a very enlightened column entitled “Age Is No Barrier to Great Sex” by Elaine George on The Daily Telegraph Website. Ms. George says: “SEX is not just about procreation, it is also for recreation — and this … Continue reading
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38 Years
We formally joined, at least as recognized by the state, 38 years ago today at 5:30 in the afternoon on a very cold winter’s day 5 hours west of the Prime Meridian. It all really started six months before that. … Continue reading
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Why So Quiet?
Long dry spell without a post! It has not been for lack of thoughts. Mix in the strange concept of having to really work hard to earn the salary they pay me, some significant (and I might add happy) family … Continue reading
Our First (Vegan) Thanksgiving
Four or five months ago, Still Here Too made the decision to go Vegan. As we usually do, Is Still Here choose to mostly join in and be Vegan at home and as close to Vegan at work as possible; … Continue reading
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Sex, the Glue that Binds
Humans can choose the lifestyle they will live. That is, they can choose within the limits allowed by the governmental and religious institutions they allow to take control of their lives. Humans can engage in the sexual relations they choose. … Continue reading
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Florida Won’t Fight End of Ban on Gay and Lesbian Adoptions
But they would if they thought they would win. A recent court ruling by the state’s 3rd District Court of Appeal overturned the State of Florida’s 33-year-old law banning adoptions by gay men and lesbians. Florida is the last remaining state … Continue reading
