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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: Communication
Death of Discussion
Usenet and all of its successors are dying. No matter what they call it in the movies, it is really anti-social networking. Social networks are supposed to make it possible to connect people who share interests and activities across political, … Continue reading
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How To Really Block on Twitter
Don’t fool around and just click that “Block” button in private — Do it in public, do it loud, do it hard, make it hurt! Is Still Here Tweet 1
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Blog Discussions, Links, and Comments
This opinion could be blamed on my long-lost academic background, but that would not be precise. Really, it has arisen because I have experienced too many posts where the initiating thought was obscure because it was not referenced, too many … Continue reading
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Personality Miscommunication — Throwing the Switch
My personality is well embedded into my neural makeup. Every time I take the MBTI test, I register as an ENTJ. My employer takes full advantage of ENTJ-traits (these are from PersonalityPage.com) of my personality, most notably: Genuinely interested in … Continue reading
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We Are Not an Optimum Match
I am an INFP. He is an ENTJ. We have found that we get a lot of interest in our blog when we mention our Myers-Brigg personality types. We will do a series of posts on this topic. We have to … Continue reading
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Being Alone
Several times a year, Still Here Too joins with a group of her artist friends from around the country to renew, to visit, and I suspect just have a good time. These are all professional women artists who find that … Continue reading
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Bellowing Elephants; a Lot of Noise, but No Communication
I spend a lot of time in reviews and meetings. The other members of the Executive Staff also spend a lot of time in reviews and meetings. Sometimes we are in meeting with each other, sometimes we are in meetings … Continue reading
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Writing about Sex
We didn’t start out planning to write about sex. We planned to write about our life; about our relationship. Sex is such a major part of our relationship, writing about sex just sort of happened. Once we started writing about … Continue reading
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