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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: Desire
Reports of My Death Are Greatly …
… Exagerated — Well, At Least Premature … thank goodness! or The Keyboard Is Stronger than the Mind Could it be that mental stress is the biggest issue? Could it be that worry about the “death” makes the “death” more likely? Could … Continue reading
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Death of the Orgasm
Death implies the end of something. But there is a character of the end that is hard to identify. Not death of an organism. We can reasonably agree on that occurrence. Perhaps not universally agree on the exact moment of … Continue reading
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Monogamy Concessions
I began this post as a response to a comment that Tokra wrote to a post by Still Here Too. My thoughts took me far enough away from the original post that I felt they be better presented stand alone. There … Continue reading
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Surgery and Sex, Getting Back To It
It can be especially mental. When the surgery is performed directly on a part of the physical sex system, when there is direct injury to sexual tissues, the mental aspect may even be a bigger hurdle to overcome. I can … Continue reading
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Sex, the Glue that Binds
Humans can choose the lifestyle they will live. That is, they can choose within the limits allowed by the governmental and religious institutions they allow to take control of their lives. Humans can engage in the sexual relations they choose. … Continue reading
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What Is Kink? What Ever You Want It to Be
kink: from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary unconventional sexual taste or behavior Well that sure as hell doesn’t help very much! Unconventional? Again from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary : not conventional : not bound by or in accordance with convention : being … Continue reading
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Sex Confession — It Does Disappoint Me
It is not uncommon for my competitive spirit to work its way into some very inappropriate situations; like sex with my dear Still Here Too. Not competition with Still Here Too, competition with myself over my own “performance”. Silly isn’t it? … Continue reading
Communication, Miscommunication, and Touch
There, no there, not there. Harder, no harder, not that hard. Faster, no faster, not that fast. Whatever you do don’t say, “Make up your mind!” The problem is not that she (maybe it is he) cannot make up their … Continue reading
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