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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: ENTJ-INFP
Struggles of an ENTJ Father Confessor
My workplace has been a bit tense of late; the dysfunctional economy, our own dysfunction, our customer’s dysfunction – a bit of a mess. Needless to say, there are many opinions of what is wrong and what should be done … Continue reading
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What If a Relationship Should Not Last?
The other day, we posted a discussion on so many couples entering into a relationship in ways that almost guarantees failure as the outcome. If you have read our blog at all you know that we are in a long-term, … Continue reading
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Giving a Relationship a Chance to Last
The other day, we were talking about how so many couples enter into a relationship in ways that almost guarantees failure as the outcome. The precautionary financial arrangements many make for the possibility the relationship might fail preclude a true … Continue reading
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We Are Not an Optimum Match
I am an INFP. He is an ENTJ. We have found that we get a lot of interest in our blog when we mention our Myers-Brigg personality types. We will do a series of posts on this topic. We have to … Continue reading
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Sex Confession — It Does Disappoint Me
It is not uncommon for my competitive spirit to work its way into some very inappropriate situations; like sex with my dear Still Here Too. Not competition with Still Here Too, competition with myself over my own “performance”. Silly isn’t it? … Continue reading
An ENTJ-INFP Coupling
A reader of this blog recently emailed us with questions about what it was like living with a person with a strong ENTJ personality type. Seems the partner of the reader was so career-committed that the reader was faced with extended … Continue reading
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State of Our Survival
All in all, surviving! We are both still here. We are both very much in love. We have a very active and satisfying sex life. We have a very rewarding life overall. Kind of hard to complain with that ain’t … Continue reading
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Odd Couples
We have been back for only four days, from a whirlwind-tempest, a joyful New Year Marriage marathon party for two wonderful 60 somethings. Plus we made a three day stop just for the two of us on the way home. … Continue reading
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