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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: friendship
Our First (Vegan) Thanksgiving
Four or five months ago, Still Here Too made the decision to go Vegan. As we usually do, Is Still Here choose to mostly join in and be Vegan at home and as close to Vegan at work as possible; … Continue reading
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Being Alone
Several times a year, Still Here Too joins with a group of her artist friends from around the country to renew, to visit, and I suspect just have a good time. These are all professional women artists who find that … Continue reading
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Dear Smokers Standing by the Door
I cannot personally speak to just how hard it is for anyone to quit smoking. I consider myself lucky to never have been tempted to start. My father was of the generation that did smoke, so I grew up around … Continue reading
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Getting the Family Together
Every family goes through this. We are having a family event this weekend. It is in celebration of a joyous life event. One of those times when you try to bring members of the family, and in this case also … Continue reading
ENTJ Challenges
Give an ENTJ personality type a problem to solve and their immediate response is usually, “No problem, let me at it!” You see, ENTJs start out believing any problem presented to them can be solved and they can solve it … Continue reading
Internet Clarity of Speech
My career, and my life, requires that I make a lot of decisions and form opinions. But I worry. I make decisions and form opinions faster than almost anyone I know. Some of that comes from being and ENTJ. Some of … Continue reading
I Really Want a Flame War!
A friend has been harmed and I must defend them! A horrible person has done something really obsecene and evil to someone I care about and I want to take action! I want to call this horrible person a bunch … Continue reading








