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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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- We Are Not an Optimum Match
- Purple Balls
- How Does a Successful Long-Term Relationship Start?
- First No Condom, Now Only Penile-Vaginal Intercourse?
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- Sex Confession — It Does Disappoint Me
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Sexual Development or Abuse – Awakening or Scarring?
This is a tale that could not be told until now for many reasons. Not least of which is that there could well have been legal issues if others had become involved in resolution of the matter. But legal resolution … Continue reading
Florida Won’t Fight End of Ban on Gay and Lesbian Adoptions
But they would if they thought they would win. A recent court ruling by the state’s 3rd District Court of Appeal overturned the State of Florida’s 33-year-old law banning adoptions by gay men and lesbians. Florida is the last remaining state … Continue reading
Sex, Porn and Figure Skating
Not a perfect analogy, but then sometimes my mind gets a little twisted. Normal people skate. Freaks of nature figure skate. If normal people try to do what top figure skaters do, they would get really, really hurt. Normal people … Continue reading
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What Is a Normal Human?
Sometimes you learn something new that is really surprising. Often it is something that the general public is not exposed to simply because general public sensitivities try to hide facts that we should probably be more aware of than me … Continue reading
Sexual Preference and the U.S. Supreme Court
Solicitor General of the United States Elena Kagan, who should be newsworthy only because she is currently nominated to the U.S. Supreme Court, has been deemed newsworthy by The Wall Street Journal for playing softball in 1993 (Thanks to my … Continue reading
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Little Dicks or Little Minds
A TSA employee is shown from the back in this body scan taken in Atlanta, Georgia. An amazingly dim-witted idiot who works for the Transportation Security Administration at Miami International Airport in Florida recently so abused a co-worker about the … Continue reading
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Modern Droogs — Violence of the Young
“We fillied round what was called the backtown for a … bit, scaring old vecks and cheenas that were crossing the roads and zigzagging after cats and that. Then we took the road west. There wasn’t much traffic about, so … Continue reading
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How Does a Successful Long-Term Relationship Start?
Absolutely any way it can! We know of many successful long-term relationships. There is no common thread in how they started. Successful long-term relationships that we know of include: Our own - We knew within a few weeks of meeting that we would … Continue reading








