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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: kink
BDSM, a Better Understanding (NSFW)
I am discussing the more extreme forms of BDSM; things I just could not understand before. My understanding has not grown to include any desire to participâté in these extreme acts. But what I think I have come to understand … Continue reading
What Is Kink? What Ever You Want It to Be
kink: from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary unconventional sexual taste or behavior Well that sure as hell doesn’t help very much! Unconventional? Again from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary : not conventional : not bound by or in accordance with convention : being … Continue reading
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Internet Clarity of Speech
My career, and my life, requires that I make a lot of decisions and form opinions. But I worry. I make decisions and form opinions faster than almost anyone I know. Some of that comes from being and ENTJ. Some of … Continue reading
You Get What You Pay For — Killer Sex
We lead a very active sex life, but there is a whole spectrum of activities that other people partake in that quite frankly we just don’t have any desire to even try but don’t mind if they want too. But … Continue reading
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Cock Rings — Should Be Taught In Med School
If you have been following this blog, you know that Is Still Here has been struggling (as discussed here and here) with sexual function. After finding a very sympathetic and apparently competent physician, and unfortunately some not so sympathetic support … Continue reading
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Communication, Miscommunication, and Touch
There, no there, not there. Harder, no harder, not that hard. Faster, no faster, not that fast. Whatever you do don’t say, “Make up your mind!” The problem is not that she (maybe it is he) cannot make up their … Continue reading
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