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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: Mental Health
Time Flies Hangs Flows
I have been around for a few decades. I have undergone both physical and mental changes over time. Physical changes are pretty noticeable; they have been both constant and somewhat stepwise. Many of them have been noticeable both internally and externally. … Continue reading
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Monogamy and Genetic Mixing in the American Melting Pot
There are two beliefs that I hold strongly that might seem to conflict with each other. The first belief is that couples are better off remaining monogamous as long as they can be part of a couple. There are corollaries … Continue reading
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How to Know You Have Met “The One”
I will let you in on the secret right up front, you won’t ever know. You will never know because there is no such thing as “The One” out there for you to meet. Let me clarify that, “The One” … Continue reading
How Does a Successful Long-Term Relationship Start?
Absolutely any way it can! We know of many successful long-term relationships. There is no common thread in how they started. Successful long-term relationships that we know of include: Our own - We knew within a few weeks of meeting that we would … Continue reading
Accompanying Your Partner to Medical Appointments — Revisited
This is a follow-up to a recent post on our practice of accompanying each other whenever possible to our medical appointments. I had another scheduled medical procedure. One that involved male genitalia, néedles, some rather exotic medication (it would be … Continue reading
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First No Condom, Now Only Penile-Vaginal Intercourse?
The 03 August 2009 edition of the Scotsman stated, “Professor Stuart Brody concludes that unprotected heterosexual sex can significantly boost men and women’s mental wellbeing. Conversely, Mr. Brody claims that heterosexual sex with a condom is associated with poorer mental … Continue reading
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