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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: Politics of Sexuality
Dirty Words in Florida
I just love the State of the Mouse. It elects some of the most entertaining characters to public office. At least you have to keep telling yourself that their actions are entertaining. If you let yourself remember that they actually … Continue reading
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What Is Kink? What Ever You Want It to Be
kink: from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary unconventional sexual taste or behavior Well that sure as hell doesn’t help very much! Unconventional? Again from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary : not conventional : not bound by or in accordance with convention : being … Continue reading
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Dreamworld — What Is a Sex Worker?
Our bubble is not that opaque. It is at least somewhat translucent. We may live lives that many would consider sheltered, but at least we are voracious in our appetites for learning from books, films, the Internet whatever source we … Continue reading
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Elder Sex — Making Sex a Priority in Our Lives
We all know that sex is a “good thing” for a happy healthy relationship. It glues the couple together and is a cocoon against the stress of the world. All evidence is that people who maintain an active sex life … Continue reading
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Unselfish Sex
With age and a whole lot of experience in the art of love (read sex = intercourse), one thing has become more and more clear. Sex is much, much better between two people and especially when there is a strong element … Continue reading
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Communication, Miscommunication, and Sex for Life
We have been communicating, well really attempting to communicate for thirty eight years as of this June. If you are still communicating after that long, you have had a lot of practice. We think we are both reasonably intelligent people. … Continue reading
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Why Anonymity
We began to write this blog as a post from both Still Here Too and me. We found that there are many reasons for wanting to remain anonymous and also for wanting to publish publically, but that they are not … Continue reading
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My soul recognizes the language of your touch
SEX - I understand that some of you have arrangements with your committed others, to be in plural relationships or open marriages - I will not judge, it is none of my business. If it works for you fine. That does not work for … Continue reading
