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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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- Cock Rings — Should Be Taught In Med School
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- Sex Confession — It Does Disappoint Me
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- How Does a Successful Long-Term Relationship Start?
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Tag Archives: sex
Escape Into Fantasy
It is an old habit and it is not in itself a bad one. The only issue I must be careful to watch for is that, as has been true in my past, I do find it so enjoyable that … Continue reading
Geriatric Switch – Part II – The Boot
Until now I have never experienced a broken bone. I have injured multiple joints in multiple ways on multiple occasions; but never before a broken bone. Then last week while walking across my house, I put my foot down on … Continue reading
Naked at Our Age, Read at Any Age
I just finished reading Joan Price’s wonderful book “Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex”. The principle topic is senior (people over fifty) sexuality. This is a topic that most younger people and many older people seemed … Continue reading
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Elder Sex, Not Gross, Its Life
I ran across a very enlightened column entitled “Age Is No Barrier to Great Sex” by Elaine George on The Daily Telegraph Website. Ms. George says: “SEX is not just about procreation, it is also for recreation — and this … Continue reading
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Slutwalks, a Perspective
The whole issue started with an ill spoken comment by Constable Michael Sanguinetti rom the Toronto Police Service’s 31 Division at a York University safety forum in which he stated that “women should avoid dressing like sluts” in order not … Continue reading
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Get Comfortable
Look at the last “Age” in this from xkcd: If you are young, have hope, there is life after 55! If you are over 55, don’t be left out! BTW, there are some out there who are comfortable admiting just how much sex … Continue reading
In Praise of BISH Graphics
One of the Memorable BISH Graphics Having spent a good twenty years producing and presenting thousands of slide presentations and now the last seven to ten years sitting through an average of twenty, or perhaps more (the mind numbs after … Continue reading
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Reports of My Death Are Greatly …
… Exagerated — Well, At Least Premature … thank goodness! or The Keyboard Is Stronger than the Mind Could it be that mental stress is the biggest issue? Could it be that worry about the “death” makes the “death” more likely? Could … Continue reading
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