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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: Sexual relationships
Elder Sex, Not Gross, Its Life
I ran across a very enlightened column entitled “Age Is No Barrier to Great Sex” by Elaine George on The Daily Telegraph Website. Ms. George says: “SEX is not just about procreation, it is also for recreation — and this … Continue reading
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In Praise of BISH Graphics
One of the Memorable BISH Graphics Having spent a good twenty years producing and presenting thousands of slide presentations and now the last seven to ten years sitting through an average of twenty, or perhaps more (the mind numbs after … Continue reading
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Reports of My Death Are Greatly …
… Exagerated — Well, At Least Premature … thank goodness! or The Keyboard Is Stronger than the Mind Could it be that mental stress is the biggest issue? Could it be that worry about the “death” makes the “death” more likely? Could … Continue reading
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Death of the Orgasm
Death implies the end of something. But there is a character of the end that is hard to identify. Not death of an organism. We can reasonably agree on that occurrence. Perhaps not universally agree on the exact moment of … Continue reading
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Surgery and Sex, Getting Back To It
It can be especially mental. When the surgery is performed directly on a part of the physical sex system, when there is direct injury to sexual tissues, the mental aspect may even be a bigger hurdle to overcome. I can … Continue reading
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Sex, Procreation, Recreation, Bonding
The Advisory Committee for Reproductive Health Drugs of the U.S. Food and Drug Administration voted unanimously recently to recommend approval of an emergency contraceptive for use up to five days after sex. According to CNN: The pill is intended for women who … Continue reading
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Elder Sex — Making Sex a Priority in Our Lives
We all know that sex is a “good thing” for a happy healthy relationship. It glues the couple together and is a cocoon against the stress of the world. All evidence is that people who maintain an active sex life … Continue reading
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How to Know You Have Met “The One”
I will let you in on the secret right up front, you won’t ever know. You will never know because there is no such thing as “The One” out there for you to meet. Let me clarify that, “The One” … Continue reading







