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We first met almost forty years ago. There was an instantaneous physical, mental, and emotional mutual attraction. With billions of people in the world this was not the only possible combination, but this one was real and obvious. Within days we knew we belonged together for more than the immediate future. Within months we made a formal commitment to remain together. We have each faced many physical and emotional successes and challenges. We have survived because of each other.
And yet, we continue to learn about each other and discover more each day. We have friends, co-workers, and colleagues. But we have very few who share our inner selves except each other. Perhaps through these postings we may find others who are more like us…
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Tag Archives: Surgery
Geriatric Switch – Part II – The Boot
Until now I have never experienced a broken bone. I have injured multiple joints in multiple ways on multiple occasions; but never before a broken bone. Then last week while walking across my house, I put my foot down on … Continue reading
Surgery and Sex, Getting Back To It
It can be especially mental. When the surgery is performed directly on a part of the physical sex system, when there is direct injury to sexual tissues, the mental aspect may even be a bigger hurdle to overcome. I can … Continue reading
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BDSM, a Better Understanding (NSFW)
I am discussing the more extreme forms of BDSM; things I just could not understand before. My understanding has not grown to include any desire to participâté in these extreme acts. But what I think I have come to understand … Continue reading
It Was a Compliment, Once My Ego Got Out of the Way
Following my most recent surgery, I was able to return to work much more quickly than I was able to following any of my previous surgeries. This was true because of the nature of the surgical work that was performed … Continue reading
Do Surgeons Understand Pain?
My most recent surgical procedure has proven to have a bit more residual pain than I expected. Or perhaps; my tolerance for pain is declining with each additional procedure. Or even perhaps; my mind has chosen to not remember what … Continue reading
Insurance Wars
Having now been released from medical lockup for what appears to be very successful correction of a long-standing issue (time will really tell), I feel it is safe to relate the behavior of my insurance company prior to my admission. … Continue reading
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Cosmic Coincidence?
About eight years ago we did some significant rearranging of our living space, we purchased a new piece of transportation equipment with a rather high fun factor and I had a surgical procedure on part of my fluid waste disposal … Continue reading
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What Is a Normal Human?
Sometimes you learn something new that is really surprising. Often it is something that the general public is not exposed to simply because general public sensitivities try to hide facts that we should probably be more aware of than me … Continue reading








